Really can’t abuse, maybe you are on the edge of the trap

2022-07-10 0 By

There is nothing wrong with being honest with people, but sincerity should not be abused. You may be on the edge of a trap.When you are not sure of safety, do not be so confident, everything to leave a little more hidden space for yourself, perhaps in special times, that is your real haven.In recent years, with the development of communication means, the communication between people has become more and more diversified. The original circle has been broken, and everyone has his or her own small circle. Therefore, in this new communication ecology, there will be many new phenomena, both good and bad.Some people say that there are few people around who can tell the truth, so it is better to talk to strangers online, and then no one knows who, but there are many people who turn over a big somersault in the opposite friend, only to find that they fell into the trap designed by others at the beginning.”Meet people and say three minutes, can not throw a heart” this sentence I believe many people understand, but in reality, there are a lot of people’s heart is not fortified, so always want to find a confiding, so hope to have a best audience around, even if all said is not afraid of being spread.Like “smiling swordsman” in depend on Lin side dumb mother-in-law same, depend on Lin what worry will go to say to her, anyway dumb mother-in-law also won’t say to others.But dumb mother-in-law in hengshan party is dumb, just because in accordance with Lin is her daughter, she will not go to hurt her, will only protect her.In the media days, I saw too many lies, so I was also very disgusted, but I fell on the truth too much.The truth about big is big wrong not to say, cause big trouble too much.Small to a unit of internal management, colleagues, because the truth has been dug pit.I remember that there was a period of time when the unit was in disorder and the leader asked me to ask for the opinions of my colleagues, which I reported truthfully.As a result, when the meeting turned around, the leader criticized everyone one by one and pretended that someone had informed against him, so that everyone’s spearhead was directly directed to my side.Another time, a colleague was promoted by the leader, apparently to dig a hole for him, I reminded him a few things should be aware of.As a result, this colleague soon told the leader what I said, but the fact also let him fall into the pit, but also let me realize that such a person can never be taught.There is nothing wrong with being honest with people, but sincerity should not be abused. You may be on the edge of a trap.Once encountered place incomplete situation to cheat money, seeing a guy to be cheated, I advised him 1.But did not walk a few steps, that boy catch up to say: “again talk to break your leg.”Turns out he was just a trust.The world we live in is not always dangerous, but you can not guarantee which piece of soil is safe, so when you are not sure of safety, do not be so confident, everything to leave a little hidden space for yourself, maybe in special times, that is your real haven.Jingxin Simple Language 2022.2.15 Yu Mian County (original works, no infringement)